Do’s and Don’ts to Remember When Meeting a Blind Person.

October isn’t just for wearing pink and Brest Cancer Awareness. It’s also Meet the Blind Month, so we’re accessorizing with canes, a positive attitude about blindness, and getting out there doing everyday things like everybody else. Here’s Marley with her long purple cane, and me with my long white cane as we leave Town Square after a fun story time and magic show before school today.

Marley with her purple cane and me with my long white cane

Here are just a few friendly reminders of do’s and don’ts when meeting a blind person.

Do; say hello instead of standing around waiting for us to expect to know you’re there.

Don’t; point when we are asking for directions, we are asking because we actually need directions.

Do; ask if we might need assistance.

Don’t; grab us by the arm and drag us to where you think we might be going or across the intersection.

Do; ask us about our blindness if you are curious.  We are more than happy to talk.

Don’t; point and stare, jump over our canes, or pull your children across the street.  Blindness isn’t a contagious disease.

Do; tell us which bills are which when giving us change.

Don’t; say, “Here are your bills, and here are your coins.”  I think we can figure that one out for ourselves.

Do; engage us in conversation.  Some of us actually might have some pretty interesting, intelligent, or hilarious anecdotes to share.

Don’t; yel or speak slowly to us.  We are blind, not deaf.


To my blind friends reading this who have your own do’s and don’ts to share, please feel free to comment below.  I’d love to hear from you.


17 thoughts on “Do’s and Don’ts to Remember When Meeting a Blind Person.

  1. Hehehehe. I have a ton more to add.
    Don’t: Grab mobility devices while we are using them. Or ever really. It only makes things worse.
    Do: provide general courtesys like opening a door,
    Dont: Stand there with the door open in silence like we will actually see you offering such a kind gesture.
    Do: Speak to a blind person directly.
    Don’t: Treat blind people like cildren by insisting on lids for only their cups, without asking for a preference. (or speaking to friends/family instead of hte person etc “what does SHE want”)


  2. Do: At gatherings, let the blind person know when a group is migrating.
    Do: Announce your arrival AND departure.

    Thanks for the list.


  3. Don’t: ask if the person is faking. (It’s very offensive and rude.)
    Don’t: rearrange our personal belongings. Or anything in our vacancy without our knowledge. (I have run into many a thing because people have done this, or lost something of importance.)
    Do: if we are eating, and don’t know what food is where on the plate, explain which food is placed where.
    Don’t: tell us we can’t see something or can see something (depending on your vision. People have told me I couldn’t see something that I could.)
    Do: treat us like human beings. Just because our vision isn’t as good, does not mean that you are allowed to talk down to us as if we are dogs that don’t understand what you are saying.
    Don’t: whisper across the way about “that blind person over there”. Our hearing is better then you’d think, we can tell what you just said.
    These are some of my personal experiences that I have dealt with.


  4. If you are a college student, taking a course from a blind instructor, don’t assume that he or she will be an easy grader, that you can blow off assignments, or that you won’t learn much in the course.


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  7. Do: feel free to ask about my guide dog.

    Don’t: Touch any guide dog while they are working which means when ever they need to be wearing their harness. If you’re not sure if it’s appropriate to pet them or not please ask.

    Do: Treat us just like anyone else, just because we are neighbors lines not mean we are fragile or treated with kid gloves. We have our Ups and downs in life just like everybody else.


  8. One of my daughters major complaints was when people would ask me questions about her well being when she was next to me. It used to irritate her very much. We used to say hey she can answer that and they would go silent. So I want to remind everyone speak directly to a blind person. A lot of blind people are very smart and interesting. Also drivers take notice to the white cane. Respect the pedestrian walkway, don’t place your car in the center of the walkway and do not use hand signals telling a blind person to go ahead and cross. They can’t see you.


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  10. It’s a real pleasure to read your list of do’s and don’t. I’ve had a few crazy experiences myself. It’ seems many believe a lack of vision equates to having a lower intelligence level, and yes, speaking louder and pointing is soooo helpful—NOT!
    I was at a crosswalk and turned away because one car stopped but I heard other cars buzzing past. So as I was trained I turned away, the woman in the stopped car came around the corner, rolled down her window and yelled, “I was waving you on!’ in a very annoyed tone of voice. I said, “I’m sorry I couldn’t see what you were doing, I legally blind.”
    Her response was to hit the gas and speed away. Sadly this isn’t the only time things like this have occurred and I try to educate people using a bit of humor when I can. I applaud you for this site and want to thank you. Cynthia L. De Boer


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